Top Lessons I’ve Learned From Starting My Company (So Far)
April 12th, 2008Because I just launched my company, I spend a lot of time reading / thinking / discussing with others about what it takes to succeed.
Without having been at it very long I am, nevertheless, beginning to build a philosophy that I think will end up guiding me through the coming years. Here’s what I’ve come up with so far.
1. Certain people were just never meant to be employees. Those people have to be more creative in order to survive.
I’m one of them. I’ve worked at various companies for 8 or 9 years now and the one thing I knew when I left my last company was that it was the right thing to strike out on my own. Success or failure, as commonly measured by others, is irrelevant. As long as you’re surviving and you’re not hemorrhaging money, you can continue on your own. And that’s far preferable to living out somebody else’s vision as an employee.
People like us operate in a different economy. Money and stability are nice but there are more important things. And it turns out, you can survive remarkably well while you’re building that world-changing company on less than you were used to making when gainfully employed.
How do we stay sane every time we see people living the good life on either someone’s salary or when picturing life in the shadow of an upcoming recession? We are optimistic that 1) things will work out one way or another and 2) that we’ll know what to do when we get there.
2. I’m really uncomfortable with two common startup doctrines: that free is a viable business model and that the only way to succeed is to get bought or go public.
Since 2006 or so, people have bandied around the idea that we’re in another bubble. We were certainly in a real estate bubble and I just knew, beginning in about 2003, that that particular asset class was not a good bet for my money.
The question is whether the same is true for internet tech today. But I’m not an investor in this case. I’m an entrepreneur. So I’m already in the game. The question is how am I going to stay in the game?
Inevitably, the question of business models comes up. According to people like Paul Graham and others, whom I respect, they say not to worry too much about the business model at first. I can understand that and I try to take their advice. On the other hand, there are lots of people who hear statements like that and interpret it to mean that the current ad-supported model of “free” internet services is an endless pool of money.
I just spent the last two years building technology to help the largest companies in the world optimize where their money is spent on advertising. They may not be there yet but, let me tell you, eventually even large advertisers are going to start looking at the low conversion rates that your free service provides to them and simply pull the plug. Poof. There go thousands of free services when this happens at scale.
So, I’m not saying you have to figure out your business model right away. I certainly don’t have mine completely figured out. And I’m not saying acquisition is bad - I’d love it to happen to a company that I build. What I am saying is that, given the direction things are going, you’ll want to do everything you can to make your business self-sustaining along the way. But only do that if it doesn’t compromise the quality of your product. Embrace constraints, as they say, and deliver a quality product that people want.
3. The phrase “social media” already makes me want to puke.
Until very recently, I was favorably inclined towards social media when it was just hackers talking about it because they actually had the skills and background to execute on their ideas and build new products to connect people in new ways.
But now, the people most using the term are just endless droves of consultants. I’m not saying consulting is a bad business. I engage in it myself to fund my company and there is certainly a need for companies who use technology to pay better attention to their users. But there is something about the term “social media” and a certain group of consultants who really turn me off to the idea. It feels manipulative and gross.
The reason I bring this up in the context of building companies is I’ve figured out that there is always going to be some fad. It usually starts, in this field, with some game-changing technology development. Then, the consultants and media come out of the woodwork and everyone, including more hackers, starts to build companies around it.
Pay attention to your own feelings about these trends. When you start to get sick of it, it means everybody else will get sick of it in a year or so. Geeks are susceptible to hyperbole but they also get bored quicker. My theory is that all boom cycles are completely at the mercy of boredom. You don’t want to build a business based on something that people are going to get bored of. Unless you can get acquired really quickly.
4. You need to focus. And fight the traps associated with focus.
All entrepreneurs have ADD. Maybe not literally, but close enough. So we know we need to focus.
Then, you have to find a way to fight the desire to shrink into an overly obscure niche, mislabeling it “focus.” We do that in order to avoid competition and - even worse - the line you get at parties when you explain what you’re doing: “Isn’t somebody already doing that?” (Yeah, welcome to the history of innovation.) It is possible to be too focused on your obscure niche because it means nobody wants what you’re building. That’s bad.
If you avoid that trap, then you have to think big but execute small. Build the simplest version of your service as quickly as possible.
I’m still just getting started in my business, but I’ve learned this once so far. I launched the current version of Boompaste primarily so I could learn how other sites like PopUrls worked and what the opportunities were for innovation. In the process, I found a product idea that I really liked (and will probably end up being the future of Boompaste because the current version’s sorry ass is about to get shut down). But instead of just going with a simple implementation of that new product idea, I came up with a grand vision of what the next version of Boompaste would be and it took me months to get anywhere. I went through that existential doubt that all entrepreneurs go through where they question the value of everything they do. That part of startups sucks and not many people talk about it. Maybe talking about it does no good.
Anyway, eventually, around January I realized that the next version of Boompaste was going nowhere. I got honest with myself. Within 24 hours, I had the idea for Gridjit. I was able to launch Gridjit within days and it was immediately useful to many people. It’s been relatively successful, given the small amount of marketing I’ve done.
What was the difference? The site did one thing and it was quick to implement. People liked it. As I add new functionality, I’m very careful to keep myself focused. My rule is becoming if you can’t launch the next valuable set of features in 7 days, you’re not focused enough. I’ve scrapped 2 versions and narrowed the scope again as a result. It’s hard, but I’m learning to trust that instinct. And as a result, Gridjit doesn’t have a bunch of shitty features that nobody needs.
5. My best ideas come when not working.
From an evolutionary perspective, staring at a 15″ screen that virtualizes communication with billions of people at the same time is probably one of those things that physical anthropologists will point to 1 million years from now as the turning point in human physiology that enabled us to turn into super-beings that dominate the universe (if we don’t blow ourselves to pieces before then).
But me? I’m stuck with a homo sapiens brain that evolved to its present state a little over 100,000 years ago. This means that I’m hard wired for creativity when I’m not staring at that 15″ screen. I’m sure there’s some name for this mechanism, but I don’t know what it is. Only how it works. It’s why people are most inspired in the shower or when jogging or when hanging out with friends. Very rarely do I have good ideas when I’m working. Work is to execute on those ideas. If you’re running out of ideas or you feel like you’re current ideas need re-validation / invigoration, take a break. Go somewhere. Shut down your machine for a few days.
6. Working at home has made me realize that I miss a lot about life sitting in front of this computer.
Every time I hear my son playing outside while I’m stuck inside working reminds me of two things.
First, don’t think you can defer the good things in your life until some point where you achieve “success” (whatever that means - certainly money doesn’t compare with watching my son play).
Second, it reminds me to actually get out of my chair and go play with him. Or take a walk with my family. Or go on a trip. I started my company because I want freedom. Yes, I work my ass off most of the time. But I don’t want to shut out the most important people in my life for years on end for something that may not achieve my goals for it.
Luck is a part of business too. Don’t think that money or your drive to provide for your family differentiates you in their eyes. Quality time and communication is the only thing that differentiates you.
7. I wasn’t ready to start my company until now. Two things prepared me. And 33 is not too old to found a startup.
It probably sounds funny to people outside of the tech industry to hear someone say that 33 is not too old to start a company. In their minds, of course it’s not too old. 33 is young! But there’s something about this industry’s culture that worships youth.
Whatever.
It really comes down to how well you live below your means. You need to do that in order to survive as an early stage startup. Paul Graham talks about this a lot, but I didn’t steal this from him. I figured it out on my own when I traveled a lot a few years ago.
That’s one of the things that really prepared me for this. In 2005, I quit my job so my wife and I could travel through Asia, New Zealand, the Middle East and Eastern Europe for almost a year. In a way, that was my first startup. I learned exactly how much money I need to survive for a year (and still have a really good time), what I was capable of (quite a lot, as it turns out), and how to adapt to an incredible variety of situations. It was on this trip that I really gained the confidence to start this thing.
The other thing that really prepared me was my work at Covario, the startup I worked for after our trip. I came in at the very beginning and learned that you almost never know how to solve the problems that are going to come up. You just have to trust that you’re smart enough to do the right thing when you get there.
Sometimes you mess up. That’s life. The fact that you messed up at the time / place probably means that someone was watching out for you and let you make that mistake earlier rather than later, when the stakes would be even higher. Be grateful. Move on. Be like a Navy SEAL (except don’t kill people). Adapt. Live off the land. Do whatever it takes to survive and succeed.
That’s my list for now. I’m sure there’s a lot more, but these are the notes I’ve taken so far. I’ll write down more as they come up and I have time.



April 12th, 2008 at 2:52 pm
Ray
Good points especially the “dont defer success”.
I read #4 re: social media and understand the “fad” element but still dont get how the social media point related to the rest of this post.
“fads” are always useful to explain current context to the “early majority”. Early adopters usually get it and will “puke” on a fad but the next 30% of your customers always want to hear what’s being said by the “in the know crowd”.
April 12th, 2008 at 3:29 pm
Nice post. I just read it from start to end in about five minutes.
Best of luck for your venture.
Regards
Prateek Dayal
April 12th, 2008 at 3:38 pm
Very well said.
I have had the same feeling about certain consultants. If you went to the Crunchies a few months ago, the room was packed with consultants, PR agents, etc… At least TechCrunch had enough humour to let us hear “here comes another bubble”
Startups are a lot of fun for a certain kind of people. And then I know another class of people who dream about startups, but frankly will forever keep working for mid and large size companies. It’s ok, not everyone needs to want the same thing (or else it would be a mess).
Alain.
April 12th, 2008 at 4:03 pm
thanks for writing that down for us. a couple of years ago i was the first technical hire at a startup, and am about to start my own first company in a couple of weeks. much of what you wrote really jives with what i experienced, felt, and feel regarding that first startup i was at. i especially like points #1 and #5. cheers,
Nick
April 12th, 2008 at 5:55 pm
Excellent points - I rarely find a post where I agree with practically everything. I work from home (which is in a corner of Sicily) and get the exact same feeling with my daughter. IThe Italians never say good luck (they don’t want to jinx things) - they say “in bocca al lupo” which is short for the phrase “we hope you shoot the wolf in the mouth”. So - in bocca al lupo!
April 12th, 2008 at 7:12 pm
ray, while i got used to the hundreds of popurls clones out there i found it quite bold to sell boompaste as a “lab product” of a commercial venture when it features almost the same sources as popurls.
anyway, thanks for mentioning it in your post.
April 12th, 2008 at 7:51 pm
“I quit my job and my wife and I traveled”
Do you mean “I quit my job and my wife to go traveling” or “I quit my job so my wife and I could go traveling”?
April 12th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
This was a great post. Being at the ground level of our startup, this was a great read to help remind us of the basics. I have a 4 yr old and an 11month old and a baby on the way. I have consciously have to pull me away from my computer and take a look at my kids, when I do I am happy and many times solve a problem that I have been dealing with.
Chris
http://www.propertystampede.com
April 12th, 2008 at 9:40 pm
I respect your long and thoughtful blog post, but to be honest, the first sentence of your blog post tells me that you will fail miserably. Instead of spending “a lot of time reading / thinking / discussing with others about what it takes to succeed”, you need to focus 110% on building a growing positive cash flow and profits.
Trust me, when you’re forced to return to the cubes as someone’s W-2 wage slave after falling into a deep depression due to failure, you will regret having wasted so much time blogging, socializing, facebooking, twittering, IM’ing, and web surfing for “the answer”. I’ll tell you the fricken answer, and it is simple: You’ve jumped off a building and you need to build your plane (profits) on the way down. Any minute you spend not doing this will be to your severe detriment.
April 13th, 2008 at 1:40 am
Been There, Done That -
Thanks for the anonymous comment.
Let’s just say you don’t need to worry. I am indeed focusing 110% on building positive cash flow and profits. It’s the other 10% of my time that I spend “reading / thinking / discussing with others about what it takes to succeed.”
April 13th, 2008 at 1:40 am
Adrian - I quit my job so my wife and I could go traveling.
April 13th, 2008 at 1:43 am
Thomas - thanks for visiting.
Obviously, Popurls is in no way threatened by what’s at Boompaste and I’ve always mentioned that it was inspired by your site. Either way, only one section of the site is based on web buzz and the current version is going away shortly.
April 13th, 2008 at 1:46 am
Thanks everyone for all of the comments.
April 13th, 2008 at 7:09 am
Some great points. I’m 37 and involved in my 3rd startup now. With a young family it is difficult, but the important thing to remember (as you point out) is to spend time with them - we’re only here for a short time and we should enjoy that time. Its kind of over-used but success for me IS the journey… I enjoy it 99% of the time. Success will never happen to people who thing its the end point as they will never be happy with what they achieve
April 13th, 2008 at 1:44 pm
Great post! I’m self-employed and have been so for almost eight years. You’re right it is all about living below your means.
April 13th, 2008 at 4:20 pm
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April 13th, 2008 at 6:46 pm
I agree with most of your statements. I’ve been self employed/consulting for about 6 years now. And at the ripe old age of 33 am looking to go at it with my first .com startup this year. We’ll see how it goes….
April 13th, 2008 at 8:25 pm
Great Post Ray. It seems everyone seems to be in a hurry to start a company in this industry. I like you point of view that 33 ain’t old. Also you’ve enjoyed a wonderful trip around the world.
Cheers and good luck.
April 13th, 2008 at 8:43 pm
Ray - thanks for the clarification, I thought that was the case. What threw me is that you always say “I”, not we (although I understand why; part of the point of the post is having self-belief).
I enjoyed the article btw.
April 14th, 2008 at 1:17 am
Adrian - no problem. I changed the sentence after your comment because it did ring funny. Glad you enjoyed the post.